The 90-Day Marriage Rescue

When your marriage is in crisis, you do not need another book.

You need a structured way through, and you need it now.

Four guided sessions across ninety days. For Muslim couples where the word divorce has been said out loud, or is close to it.

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Led by Mizi Wahid, founder of Nikah Academy. Fifteen years of pastoral and coaching practice across Singapore, Malaysia, and Indonesia.

A young woman in a dusty rose hijab looking out a window at dusk
The hour after the conversation no one wanted to have.

If you are reading this

“Do we stay — and if we stay, do we actually rebuild, or do we just survive?”

01

The conversation has already happened — either you said it, or your partner did, or one of you has been thinking it for months.

02

You have tried talking it out late at night, reading articles at 2am, speaking to one friend who took your side and another who took your partner's.

03

You have prayed about it more in the last sixty days than in the previous year combined.

This is the work this programme is designed for. Not early misunderstanding. Not routine friction. The crisis that has names attached to it.

Who this is for

Muslim couples where at least one of these is true.

  • 01Divorce has been mentioned in the last 90 days.
  • 02You are sleeping in separate rooms.
  • 03There has been a major rupture — infidelity, breach of trust, financial concealment, in-law breakdown.
  • 04One partner has withdrawn emotionally and the other does not know how to reach them.
  • 05You have agreed, sometimes wordlessly, to try one more thing.

The ninety days that follow

Four guided sessions, spaced to match the natural arc of repair.

Wk 1Session one
Wk 4Session two
Wk 8Session three
Wk 12Session four

Sessions can be in person or remote. Spaced across the ninety days to match the natural arc of repair — close enough to keep momentum, far enough apart for the work between them to land.

Inside the four sessions

What each session does, and how to come ready for it.

Wk 1

Session one: Stop the bleeding

Outcomes

  • Name what is actually breaking, without performance
  • Agree a temporary container so the next 90 days are workable
  • Identify the one pattern most likely to end the marriage

How to prepare

  • Both partners present, no children in the room
  • Bring a written account of the last serious rupture
  • Eat beforehand — the session runs two hours
Wk 4

Session two: Map the pattern

Outcomes

  • See the loop you keep returning to, in slow motion
  • Locate where each partner exits the conversation
  • Build the first replacement move for that exit point

How to prepare

  • Track three flashpoints between sessions — date, trigger, what each of you did
  • Read the short note sent after session one
  • Come willing to be wrong about your own role
Wk 8

Session three: Rebuild the contract

Outcomes

  • Write the new agreements that replace the broken ones
  • Restore one specific area: money, intimacy, in-laws, or parenting
  • Repair a named hurt with witnessed accountability

How to prepare

  • Each partner brings two non-negotiables and two flexibles
  • Surface anything raised in week six that still feels unfinished
  • Decide privately what success in this marriage now means to you
Wk 12

Session four: Make it durable

Outcomes

  • Stress-test the new pattern against a real upcoming pressure
  • Set the maintenance rhythm you will hold without me
  • Define the early signal that means you call again

How to prepare

  • Run one hard conversation between you in the week before
  • Bring what worked and what fell apart, honestly
  • Block the next ninety days of weekly check-ins between yourselves

Why this works

Couples in crisis cannot wait for slow.

 
Most counselling
This programme
Pace
Weekly, open-ended
Front-loaded into one day
Structure
Often unstructured
Hour-by-hour protocol
Plan
Rarely written down
Written 90-day plan
Framework
Secular / clinical
Pastoral, Islamic-grounded
Outcome held by
Memory of last session
Spaced follow-ups

Built session by session, with real couples, in the actual conditions of late-stage marital crisis — not a theoretical model adapted from a textbook.

What anchors the work

Islamic, without being preachy. Pastoral, without being clinical.

Mawaddah

Loving-kindness

Affection rebuilt from foundation, not performed for show.

Sakinah

Tranquillity

The deep stillness a marriage is meant to provide. Recoverable, often, even from here.

Rahmah

Mercy

Held in both directions — toward each other, and toward yourselves.

Two hands almost touching across a small wooden table beside a cup of tea
Mawaddah is not a feeling you wait for. It is a hand you decide to reach for.

The investment

Pay by the hour, or commit to a four-session arc. Whichever you choose, the room is yours — undivided, unhurried.

Per session · couple

$250

SGD / hour

Both of you in the room. Booked an hour at a time.

Per session · individual

$200

SGD / hour

One of you, when the conversation needs to happen alone first.

Four-session arc · couple

$997

SGD · four sessions

Four sessions plus a weekly check-in across the month. The work that actually moves something.

Four-session arc · individual

$797

SGD · four sessions

Four sessions plus a weekly check-in across the month, held one-to-one.

No add-ons. No upsells. If a session needs to run longer than scheduled, it runs longer. Payment for the four-session arc is in two parts: half before the first session, half after the second.

If you decide to separate

The remaining sessions still happen — focused on separating cleanly, protecting any children involved, and closing the marriage with dignity.

You do not pay anything additional for that — the sessions you have already paid for carry through to the end.

A note on the guarantee

There is no money-back guarantee on this programme — and you should be wary of anyone offering one for work of this kind.

What we will say is this: the 15-minute call before booking exists for both of us. If either of us thinks this is not the right fit, we will say so on that call, and no booking will be taken. The cost of getting that wrong is too high for everyone.

A young woman in a deep teal hijab looking upward in a softly lit corridor
Whichever way the ninety days end, you walk out clearer than you walked in.

Questions

We are not sure we both want to do this.+

That is normal. The 15-minute call is for both of you. If only one partner is willing, start with individual sessions at $200/hour — that work is real on its own, and often shifts what is possible together later.

How is this different from going to a counsellor?+

Counsellors typically work weekly over many months, often without a written plan. These sessions are more directive and structured, built around a clear protocol you can see progress against. Couples sessions are grounded in Islamic principles around marriage, mawaddah and sakinah; individual sessions adapt to whatever framework serves the person in the room.

Do you work with non-Muslim couples?+

Yes. The couples framework draws on Islamic principles around marriage, mawaddah and sakinah, and many Muslim couples want that explicitly. For non-Muslim couples and individuals, the same structure applies without the Islamic framing — the work is just as direct.

Can we do this remotely?+

Yes. Sessions can be fully in person in Singapore, fully remote, or a mix — whichever makes it easiest for both of you to actually show up each week.

What if we decide partway through to separate?+

That is a real outcome of this work and the sessions are designed to support it. We continue at the same hourly rate, focused on separating cleanly, protecting any children involved, and closing the marriage with dignity. Anything already paid in a four-session arc carries through.

Final step

Request a 15-minute confidential call.

Both partners on the line. We determine fit and, if it is right, schedule the first session before the call ends.

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